What's good for your sex life? If I asked you to name three or four things right now that, if you could have them, would improve your sex life, could you? Answers like "more sex" or "better sex" don't count (they're the equivalent of saying "I want a million more wishes" when granted one wish from a genie). I'm curious about this because I have begun to think that all the misinformation about sex that surrounds us, and that we grow up with, leaves us with a relatively narrow view of what our sex lives are, and as a result, when we get into trouble with them, we often don't know where to start. What do you do, for example, when your sex life fizzles out just at the time when you expect it to heat up? That's the puzzle for people who move in together for the first time only to find it means they have less sex, not more. And it, along with a few other modern prob lems, is the focus of this week's newsletter. I hope you're having a good week and wherever you are, it's not as cold as here. ~ Cory
XOXOSMS is a short documentary that follows the story of Jiyun and Gus, who meet and fall in love online, and then meet in real life. The filmmaker is having an online screening followed by a live panel discussion. Check it out!